Look good, feel good.

It's easy to let yourself go when you're feeling down; you eat junk food, you don't do the laundry, and your stop going to the gym. You may be surprised how easy it is to pile on the pounds in just a couple of weeks of letting yourself go this way.

You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself and get back in the game: go to the gym, eat right, take care of your appearance. You're not going to get her back by looking like a slob.

Get out and enjoy yourself.

It won't necessarily hurt your chances of getting your ex back if you casually date another girl. Remember, you're not actually in a relationship with your ex any more, even though you want to be, and until you get her back, you're a free agent.

But don't go out with some other girl just to make your ex jealous; that's not going to get you anywhere. And if your ultimate goal is to get back with your ex, make it clear to the new girl that you're just interested in having some fun and nothing more.

Put things into perspective.

Don't kid yourself about what went wrong; you need to be honest with yourself if you hope to patch things up. It takes two to make a relationship work, and it takes two to mess a relationship up; make sure you accept your part in the break up and be ready to make amends.

Ask her to talk about it.

When you're feeling better and you've thought it all through, and you believe you have an honest perspective on what went wrong, make contact with her and see if she wants to talk about it. Don't push; just spend a couple of minutes seeing where she's at and whether she seems open to talking to you.

Depending on how she reacts to this initial contact, you either ask her to get together and talk things out, or you back off and give her some more time.

What to do next?

What to do next is a whole book all by itself, and if you really want to have the edge, you should get "The Magic of Making Up System"; it is the whole book, and it's helped lots of guys in the same boat you're in right now. Check it out.

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How To Get Your Girlfriend Back

The question is, where did you go wrong? What made your girlfriend break up with you? Some girls will tell you exactly why they left you; others won't. If your ex girlfriend didn't spell it out for you, and you really don't know what you did wrong, you should start by asking her. If she's not willing to talk about it yet, and you still want to get back together with her, here are 4 tips to keep in mind:

Pay attention to her.

Women don't like it when they don't think their partners are paying enough attention to them. And if you think about, neither do guys. It's just human nature: we like to think we're important to other people, and if you pay attention to her, you're showing her that she's important to you.

Give her emotional support.

Women generally need more emotional support than men (or, at least, they're more willing to admit they need it than men are), and if you want to get your ex girlfriend back, you should try and figure out what she needs in terms of emotional support from you. The simplest way to do this is to ask her. For instance, if she's having a tough time with a friend or family member, or she's having a rough time at work, ask her, "What can I do to support you through this?"

Let her know she's the only one you need.

Even if she's cheated on you in the past, or you've cheated on her in the past, sleeping around will not help you get her back. If you're sleeping around with other women, she'll think she can't give you what you need, and she won't even bother trying.

Show her you're willing to do your part.

It's easy to fall into stereotypical gender-based role models, especially when you've lived together for some time ("She's the woman; she's supposed to do the cooking and the cleaning. I'm the man; I'm supposed to take out the garbage and mow the lawn."). But are you doing your fair share of the work that goes into maintaining your lives together? Pitch in with the housework. Go to the grocery store. Do the cooking occasionally (taking her out to dinner is nice, but it doesn't count here).

These 4 tips will go a long way, but if you're looking for more help, and you'd like to be shown how to get your girlfriend back by somebody who's helped lots of other guys do that, check out "The Magic of Making Up System"; you won't be sorry you did.

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How To Get Your Girlfriend Back: 4 Quick Tips