If your girlfriend broke up with and you're wondering how to get her back, read on. But be prepared to take responsibility for your part in the breakup; it takes 2 to make a relationship, and it takes 2 to break a relationship. The first step is to realize that — whoever broke it off — you had a part in ending it.
The question is, where did you go wrong? What made your girlfriend break up with you? Some girls will tell you exactly why they left you; others won't. If your ex girlfriend didn't spell it out for you, and you really don't know what you did wrong, you should start by asking her. If she's not willing to talk about it yet, and you still want to get back together with her, here are 4 tips to keep in mind:
Pay attention to her.
Women don't like it when they don't think their partners are paying enough attention to them. And if you think about, neither do guys. It's just human nature: we like to think we're important to other people, and if you pay attention to her, you're showing her that she's important to you.
Give her emotional support.
Women generally need more emotional support than men (or, at least, they're more willing to admit they need it than men are), and if you want to get your ex girlfriend back, you should try and figure out what she needs in terms of emotional support from you. The simplest way to do this is to ask her. For instance, if she's having a tough time with a friend or family member, or she's having a rough time at work, ask her, "What can I do to support you through this?"
Let her know she's the only one you need.
Even if she's cheated on you in the past, or you've cheated on her in the past, sleeping around will not help you get her back. If you're sleeping around with other women, she'll think she can't give you what you need, and she won't even bother trying.
Show her you're willing to do your part.
It's easy to fall into stereotypical gender-based role models, especially when you've lived together for some time ("She's the woman; she's supposed to do the cooking and the cleaning. I'm the man; I'm supposed to take out the garbage and mow the lawn."). But are you doing your fair share of the work that goes into maintaining your lives together? Pitch in with the housework. Go to the grocery store. Do the cooking occasionally (taking her out to dinner is nice, but it doesn't count here).
These 4 tips will go a long way, but if you're looking for more help, and you'd like to be shown how to get your girlfriend back by somebody who's helped lots of other guys do that, check out "The Magic of Making Up System"; you won't be sorry you did.
